Monday, September 28, 2009

Love the Girl!

I can't even remember what she was sad about, but that little tear and peanut butter face I can't resist!

When I was little and my Dad worked for a manufactured home building company, he would always bring home big refrigerator boxes from the new refrigerators they bought for the model homes. This was the biggest treat for us! We would cut out a swinging door, a window, draw frames, furniture, and other things to make this giant box our little home and shove at least 3 of us in there (if we were all getting along at the time). We would fight over who got the next box and play in it until it finally rained outside and turned the box into mush.

Elliot and I had to buy a new water heater on Saturday and Stella is loving this box! It's quite a bit more narrow than the refrigerator box was, but she's an only child, so it works. She eats her lunch in there, ate the rest of her cousin's birthday party snacks (nice hiding place), and watches movies in there. It's also good for headstands. She's totally getting a box and post-it notes for Christmas. She'd be totally happy.

STELLA: "Is this Hannah Montana?"
MOM: "No Sweetie. It's lantana."

When you were growing up, wasn't there always a kid at school that smelled like maple syrup? It was never me because we always had cereal or boiled eggs, but there was always someone. Well, I think my child is the Syrup Kid because she likes to lick her plate and gets her hair in it. Elliot is completely grossed out by this.

Speaking of lack of manners, I'm sure Stella will need ettiquette lessons. I'm certainly not the one to teach her how to be a lady because I think making fart noises is funny. I do love the giggle more.

Sunday, September 27, 2009

OHIO - Part 3 (MORLEY FARM, KIRTLAND TEMPLE, JOHNSON HOME, AMISH)

THE MORLEY FARM
We had a little time before the tours started again at the Kirtland Temple, so we headed down the road to visit the Isaac Morley Farm. The church doesn't actually own the land that the house was on, but we took a walk as far as we could through a beautiful path (the original path) that led to Mentor, Ohio.

The couple missionaries told us a crazy little story about Isaac Morley and his wife. They were friendly with some Indians in the area. However, the Chief came to them one day and told them that his wife had seen their fine baby boy and wanted him to be hers. He demanded the baby or else they would massacre everyone.

Never heard this story? Me neither. Well, I'll tell you right now that if I'd been her, EVERYONE WOULD BE MASSACRED! Isaac Morley, however, prayed about it and decided that he was supposed to give their baby to the Indians. WHAT????? They took him to the Chief the next morning. The next day, the Chief brought the baby back and said that his wife felt bad that she now had a baby and Isaac's wife was left without one. We still would have been massacred. I'm just saying.

The view from the Morley farm was absolutely beautiful. The picture seriously doesn't capture any of the beauty that was the Morley Farm.

THE KIRTLAND TEMPLE
The LDS church does not own the Kirtland Temple. The Community of Christ owns it. They have also been called Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, as well as several other names.

Joseph and Emma Smith finally were able to build a house close to the temple. There is a cemetary across the street where Hyrum Smith's first wife, Jerusha, is buried as well as Joseph & Emma's twins and several others from the family.

We started with a video presentation about the history of the church. It was a little boring as Elliot and Stella both fell asleep. However, after the video was done, the curtains opened to reveal a beautiful view of the Kirtland Temple. We walked through the meditation gardens to go to the temple. Their grounds were very green and flowers were very pretty.

The temple is very tall, but narrow and much smaller than we had imagined. The staircase banister is original, however they put in a newer banister attached to the wall to help us climb the extremely steep 66 steps to the upper rooms of the temple.

The second floor assembly room was almost completely white everywhere. It had vaulted ceilings and curtains to separate the large room in to smaller classrooms. The beautiful windows allowed for natural light to brighten the rooms. The second floor was not as detailed as the first floor assembly room. The big bay window glass had to be broken to fit the special design they made for it and a lot of the windows were original. The desks in the pew boxes could be lifted or lowered depending on the type of meeting held.

The attic had five rooms with 2 doorways into each. There was no hallway, so they built a crawl space to the side so as not to disturb other classes or meetings in progress to get to the other rooms. Joseph's office was a the end where he studied Hebrew.

The main floor was more ornate and detailed. It also had a sacrament table. We checked the side benches for our friend's restorative work and found his label on the 2 benches. We got to sit in the pew boxes (which locked) and the tour guide had us pass around an old hymn book (she kept calling them "hems") as well as the words to the dedicatory prayer. She kept calling the religion a "movement," which was vexing me greatly.

We weren't actually able to take pictures of the inside of the temple, so those 2 of the inside are just postcards. It started pouring rain right after our tour ended . . . I'm talking Little House on the Prairie rain, so we had to use umbrellas and run back to the Visitors Center.

When the rain stopped, we were able to go back outside to snap some more pictures.

I'm certainly grateful for the sacrifice of the early Saints in building this beautiful temple and I'm grateful that the Community of Christ church for it's continued care, though I thought it funny to note that I felt the spirit more at The Sawmill and Ashery than I did at the Kirtland Temple. There is just something about dedicated ground, no matter what stands on it.

JOHN & ELSA JOHNSON HOME
This home in Hiram, Ohio had beautiful grounds. I love how well the church takes care of their property. The church owns the 160 acres on the North of the street, but does not own the 100 acres South which John Johnson had originally owned.

We were impressed by the response of the missionaries when we mentioned that our last name was Dibble. They perked right up, but also got nervous to tell the story of Philo Dibble who was Elliot's great-great-great-grandfather.

85% of the Johnson home is original. In it's restorative work, the church tried to save as much original wood as possible as well as sanding down newer paint jobs to see what the original colors were in the home.

The Carriage House was just like a garage off the side of the house where people would park and then take their horses down to the barn.

The Johnson home also had a summer baking kitchen as well as a huge regular kitchen and pantry, with the birth room right off to the side. Deliver a baby, bake a pie. It's all the same. There was a tiny office off to the side of the kitchen where John Johnson took care of his 4 businesses (butter/cheese made in cellar, dairy farm-16 cows, saw mill, and we can't remember the other one).

The sitting room was where John and Elsa spent a whole night up reading the Book of Mormon because someone came by to report that their son, Lyman, had joined the Mormon church. He brought the Book of Mormon for them to read and they were baptized soon after.

Four apostles came from the Johnson family - their sons, Luke and Lyman, as well as their sons-in-law William McClellan and Orson Hyde.

The parlor room had an interesting floor. It's exactly like it was back when Elsa lived there. Our tour guide called her the Martha Stewart of her time. They turned this parlor room into a bedroom for Joseph and Emma to live in for a time. This is where a mob pulled Joseph from his bed and he was beaten, tarred, and feathered.

They spent the rest of the morning cleaning him up and he was still able to speak to over 150 people (from this front porch) who gathered at the front of the house that morning, including 4 of the mob members. They were later baptized because they knew that he had to be a prophet to be able to do that.

Joseph and Emma's adopted son died several days later. He had been sick before, but after the mob came and took Joseph that night, the cold from the front door made him worse.

The childrens rooms were upstairs (they had several children), which they separated and built walls to make room for John & Elsa's room. The attic room could fit more than 35 people in it.

The there was a staircase that led straight to the "revelation room." The Revelation Room was very sacred. This is where God and Jesus Christ appeared to Joseph Smith and Sidney Rigdon during a series of 10 revelations that lasted 90 minutes. This was the Plan of Salvation (Doctrine & Covenants 76:22-24). Philo Dibble walked in and though he could not see the revelation, he could see the countenance of Joseph was different. He noted that Sidney Rigdon looked tired. There were other men in the room and they all sat silent and unmoving during the whole thing.

We liked how the couple missionaries (Elder & Sister Dalton, Colorado) bore their testimony at every opportunity. We loved the quiet, still, serene, and peaceful feeling that we felt at the John Johnson Home. This was a special place for our family to be.

THE AMISH
Our friend Barry has an Amish friend that lived in the area, so we went to visit him. It was a holiday, so his whole family was visiting and we totally interrupted their volleyball game. I was so nervous that Stella was going to ask embarrassing questions about them, but she just wanted to see their horses and was excited about the carriages. Mark Miller was very nice and gave us a tour of his wood shop which is powered by hydraulics and not electricity. He does beautiful work. Several years ago, Elliot helped Barry install some of Mark's cabinetry in someone's home in Fountain Hills.

They don't like their picture taken, and I wasn't going to ask. But we saw someone else in a carriage on our way back to the hotel, so I took their picture.

We love Kirtland. Now, on to the rest of the church history tour! (at a different time than now)

OHIO - Part 2 (KIRTLAND VILLAGE)

KIRTLAND VILLAGE VISITORS CENTER
We started out at the visitor's center with a video presentation depicting the time when the early Saints were in Kirtland and before they built the temple. Kirby Heyborne (Single's Ward, RM, etc.) was the actor playing Oliver Cowdrey (who also, incidentally, served his mission with Elliot).

We got a little guided tour, starting at the Newell K. Whitney store, which was the original building and apparently the central location for the town. Newell K. Whitney was kind of the unsung hero for our trip after we'd learned all that he did for the Saints in Kirtland. He was a very successful and generous man. He gave supplies and food freely. We were impressed once again by the church's painstaking efforts in trying to recreate what the original inside of the building would have looked like.

The upstairs office area was where early church leaders discussed plans for the Kirtland Temple as well as the location for several other revelations.

The room next door was called the School of the Prophets. It was a small room where several men were able to meet with the prophet Joseph Smith, Jr. This was also the site where the Word of Wisdom was revealed as Emma Smith was disgusted with the spitoons she had to clean out after their meetings. Can you imagine sitting that close to Joseph Smith in a meeting?

Newell and Elizabeth Whitney separated the once large room of the upstairs to make a place for Joseph and Emma Smith to live for a period of time. This is where their twins were born and died a few hours later.

THE WHITNEY HOME
Elizabeth Whitney wanted a yellow home, so Newell sent for paint from England to grant his wife's wishes. See what I tell you about being a generous man. Good one. We liked the "wife saver" in the fireplace which allowed for the cooking pot to swing out away from the fire in the fireplace so the wife's skirt wouldn't catch on fire from leaning in too close. The Whitney Home had a summer kitchen built to the side of the winter kitchen to keep the house from getting extra hot in the summer when she did her baking.

Their fireplaces were built so the warm air would be directed more accurately into the room as well as the warmer built above it to keep bedsheets or clothes warm for bedtime. The front parlor was where Joseph and Emma lived for 6 weeks before moving to the Isaac Morley farm. I didn't get a picture because my camera card kept locking for half of the tour.

JOHN JOHNSON INN
The red brick structure seemed more reminiscent of Nauvoo than what we pictured for Kirtland. This building was given to John Johnson after he was asked to consecrate his home and farm to the church. This allowed him to still provide for his family.

They had a computer that printed the names of people who were baptized there in Kirtland. We looked up Elliot's great-great-great grandfather Philo Dibble and his wife Celia Kent who were both baptized in October 1830 by Parley P. Pratt in the River by the village.

On display in the museum-like Johnson Inn was an early hymnal turned to the hymn 21 (in the old book) "The Happy Day At Last Has Come" which was written by Philo Dibble. This hymn is #32 in our hymn book today.



THE SAW MILL & ASHERY
The saw mill was powered by water wheel. When President Hinckley came to visit several years ago, he asked them to "power it up!" which they did. It takes 15 minutes to cut the length of a hardwood log. The finishing room was also powered by the mill.



The ashery was next to the sawmill where ash was refined to lye water, potash, or pearl ash. Ash was gathered from homes or businesses and then water was filtered through it for 2 days. The water/ash liquid (lye water) that resulted was barreled (after being tested) and sold to others for soap making and other purposes (shipping as far away as Pittsburgh and England). It sold for $50/barrel. The lye water could also be "cooked" (heated) in large iron cauldrons until the water boiled off. The result was potash. It could also be sold for $100/barrel. The potash could also be baked into pearl ash, which could be sold for $150/barrel.

The ashery was one of Newell K. Whitney's businesses and once he joined the church, he donated 100% of all the ashery's proceeds to the church for the building of the Kirtland Temple. Though I'm not named after him, I'm proud to bear the name of Whitney.

We were told that in 2003 the state highway passed right through the yet-to-be restored Kirtland Village. So the church worked with the town to adjust the roadway and preserve the village area for pedestrians.

THE RED SCHOOL HOUSE
The church started to build the parking lot in this area, but then found a footing for this school house and had to rearrange the plans to rebuild this building and move the parking lot to the other side.

Stella was pretty much done with this tour. She was done picking all of the beautiful wild flowers, so she moved on to her boogers.

Friday, September 18, 2009

Oh, Stella

I was singing to Stella the other night at bedtime and she had something extremely important to tell me (it's always extremely important, right?), so she said, "Wait, wait, wait, you need to pause." It wasn't really that important. Especially when she has to make up something to say after I've been paused.

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Apparently I'm a monster. A hairy monster. Several months ago I was growing out my eyebrows so that I could go get them waxed. At church before I sent Stella off to her primary class, she said, "Oh, wait," grabbed my face in her hands and then she smoothed out my wayward brow.

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Still hairy. I also have a few pesky upper lip hairs that are included on waxing day. Hormones, genetics, whatever. It's not my fault. Apparently it's time again because the other day Stella pointed out that I had a mustache. Offensive, right? Well it was also accompanied by a sweet little family picture that she drew. I was sporting the mustache. She's grounded.

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Stella's been sorting, matching, and organizing in Kindergarten. I've been doing a little of that myself. I retrieved all of my maternity clothes and nursing stuff out of the attic to get rid of. I haven't quite had a chance to dispose of everything. Stella found and placed a breast pad on each pink star on our bedspread. She's a good little student.

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She might hate this one to be published later in her life, but I'm in charge now and she said I had a mustache, so here we go. A while ago, Stella and I were playing airplane on the floor. She had been balancing on my feet for quite some time. The next time she mounted my feet, she let out the greasiest, most disgusting fart (I can't call it a "fluff" Mom, it was definitely fart sounding). I told Stella that she should probably go into the bathroom to check it out. Elliot and I waited in the living room for her update when we heard her yell from the bathroom, "HEY, I DIDN'T FART! I POOPED MY PANTS!"

Elliot and I had to wait for a minute to help her so we could stop laughing. Elliot went to help her and found her standing on the bathroom counter, buns facing the mirror, undies around her ankles, and bent over looking through her legs "checking it out". We had to wait another minute to help.

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Elliot likes to sing "Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing" to Stella when he's home to put her to bed. It's one of her favorites. Tonight Stella sang it all the way home from our family activity perfectly on key. However, she likes to make up her own words when she sings it herself. Most of it was just jibberish, but she did sing about springing dolphins, praising the mountains and trees, sang "Christ" in five syllables, and ended with "spaceballs." We also caught several references to HeMan and Grayskull.

Thursday, September 17, 2009

OHIO - Part 1 (UNCLE MILES)

FINALLY! We finally planned our visit to Ohio to see Uncle Miles and Tom! Last Friday we flew out and got to stay in their beautiful home. I wonder what my house would look like if I worked at Crate & Barrel. I didn't get a picture of Toby, Miles' cat because he was a little shy and freaked out with Stella's sudden movements. Every time we saw him outside, he had a look on his mug that said, "I will return home when the child is gone. No sooner."

Of course, Elliot had to eat some BBQ, so we went out to eat at Montgomery Inn on someone's referral. I forgot to pack warm clothes, so I was freezing the entire time we were in Ohio. After dinner, Miles and Tom treated us to some Graeter's Ice Cream. I have a strict rule about NOT mixing chocolate and fruit, but Tom was quite passionate about getting the raspberry chocolate chunk that we had to get it and it was DELICIOUS!

Saturday morning (late morning) we planned to go to a children's museum called Cosi, not to be confused with Cosi the restaurant and also pronounced different. Makes sense, doesn't it? We had been in the front entry area for quite some time looking at their displays when I got a little ansie to go to another floor to see the rest of the museum. Miles and Tom were lurking about trying to act really interested in something (obviously stalling for time . . . but not obvious enough to me). As I started walking away, I spotted my brother-in-law Keith coming in the front door. Hum, I wondered. I haven't seen many people who look exactly like my action-hero brother-in-law. Then I saw his beautiful wife (my sister) and looked down to see a turbo stroller holding their 2 adorable kids as well as Aunt Nat following closely behind with a pig-tailed Tatem! I was so happy to see them! (if you'll remember, I didn't really get my fill of them when they were in Arizona in May because I was on my death bed) I was so happy that they made the LONG drive from Indiana to visit us!

(Stella was disgusted by the fake camel)

We milled around through the museum holding Stella most of the time because she felt like crap most of the day until she got some medicine from Aunt Lindsay.

Stella even fell asleep in Elliot's arms!

We ate lunch, made a huge mess in the cafeteria, and let the girls play in the museum playland before we headed back home. It was nearly impossible to get a picture of all four girls holding still. I can't believe Stella is the oldest. It's so weird not to have to chase around my own child anymore.

Miles and Tom grilled some yummy kabobs for us and we finished the night off with some more Graeter's Ice Cream. They also busted out the white-trash wigs.

(How can she be so, so, so beautiful and soooooooo absolutely ugly at the same time!)

We also had a contest to see who could suck in their nose the skinniest (pictures to come). We tried to stay up really late to visit, but we're all old now and can't stay awake very long. We did manage to take a normal picture of ourselves and send it to Mom (also, pictures to come later . . . they are on Miles' camera).

Elliot has a special touch with babies. Baby Brynlee must have been a sleepy girl!

Sunday morning we said goodbye to Uncle Miles before he went to work and had planned on leaving for Kirtland in the early afternoon. When Lindz, Keith, and Nat and the girls showed up all in matching outfits and one for Stella, we headed over to Crate & Barrel to visit Uncle Miles one more time and have lunch so he could have a picture with all of the girls. Lunch at California Pizza Kitchen (the restaurant where Elliot and I almost broke up 10 years ago) was a little chaotic, but I'm glad we got to spend a little more time with Miles.

We finished packing up our stuff and said our goodbyes hoping that I'd made good enough friends with the little girls for an unforced goodbye hug (I even got a kiss-kiss from Tatem!).

We're so glad we finally got to visit Uncle Miles and Tom and scare the crap out of Toby the Cat! Thanks Miles and Tom!